I was one of the BCC people on an email Mohammadi sent to San Jose Inside with proof that Ann Grabowski and Don Rocha lied about him, most likely due to trying to hide the inappropriate relationship between them.
"From Shaian Mohammadi e-mail to San Jose Inside in July after the article being posted and without asking for a public comment: Jenn, I found all of my facebook messages with Ann. They're attached in screenshot and full doc. You can ask her for these too. FYI there are other parties BCC'd on this e-mail.
There is nothing in here to suggest her on the record quote, nor from Don. In fact, any of the times her office was mentioned, it was her doing it and me not acting on it.
Some of these flirty messages were just one week before our final fight, in which you have the e-mails I sent (where I say don't stand in my way because she was blogging about me and stripping me of a role at the party for personal reasons, e.g. my e-mail to Darcie about it).
I do not call people on the phone (as I hate it and never spoke with Ann on the phone), I facebook message or e-mail or text, and we primarily stuck to facebook and gmail. And if we did text it was usually like come over. Can you ask her for text message proof of the "unwanted, obsessive, harassing" behavior since I gave you all of our e-mails and facebook chats, or any kind of strong proof for that matter...? We spoke on gchat a couple times, but it was about my depression and job stuff, so maybe she will have something to show you if you ask...? It seems fishy that she turned nothing over to you, doesn't it? Clearly if I had ever gone to her house uninvited or broke the law in any way with her, she would have gotten a restraining over against me or pursued me legally.
former Don staffer who was there during all of this, wanted to chat with you about how I never gave Ann harassing calls at work, and you didn't contact her when I gave you her number.
What proof exactly did you ask Ann for in order to make these 2013 allegations against me"
Below are some screenshots of their messages. For entire Facebook log, see below. Also emails below.
FACEBOOK LOGS Conversation started March 13, 2012
3/13, 12:09pm Shaian Mohammadi We actually are Facebook friends! Word.
3/13, 1:26pm Ann Grabowski Told ya so!
3/13, 2:23pm Shaian Mohammadi Thanks for the notes.
August 14, 2012
8/14, 12:34pm Shaian Mohammadi Try to watch if you can!
November 21, 2012
11/21, 12:44pm Shaian Mohammadi Please don't struggle with anorexia anymore. You are beautiful the way you are.
November 21, 2012
11/21, 4:06pm Ann Grabowski Xoxo
December 7, 2012
12/7, 1:37pm Shaian Mohammadi thanks for liking the page :)
12/7, 1:38pm Ann Grabowski Sometimes I'm good at doing what I'm told. Plus - hello, Prop 8 challenge. Who doesn't like Gavin Newsom today?
12/7, 1:39pm Shaian Mohammadi I like you also for sometimes not doing what you're told. yeah I remember in 2009 when I was making calls for him, a lot of people called him the gay marriage mayor and that they wouldn't support him cuz of that. Joke's in their faces. Dependent upon SCOTUS...
12/7, 1:40pm Ann Grabowski I have a good feeling about this one.
You know...since people have been gay since the dinosaurs and somehow the world hasn't ended.
12/7, 1:50pm Shaian Mohammadi yeah me too, especially with how they ruled on Obamacare. I didn't sleep for a couple days on that one. #legalnerd wait what, people existed during dinosaurs? holy shit! :) gay dogs exist. therefore gay marriage should be legal. #offensive
12/7, 1:51pm Ann Grabowski uh duh. haven't you ever seen those comics about cavemen?
12/7, 1:53pm Shaian Mohammadi ohhh yeah. wasn't Palin citing those in her briefs? better source than Wiki.
12/7, 1:55pm Ann Grabowski ohhhh snap.
12/7, 1:59pm Shaian Mohammadi I went there.
December 29, 2012
12/29, 2:27am Shaian Mohammadi I'm you're friend. That's who I am. <3 Wow. I'm a fucking idiot. *your
December 29, 2012
12/29, 7:47am Ann Grabowski I can certainly appreciate that :)
December 29, 2012
12/29, 2:07pm Shaian Mohammadi :)
January 8, 2013
1/8, 9:47am Shaian Mohammadi Merci for RSVPing!!!!
1/8, 10:40am Ann Grabowski I got your back, homie :)
1/8, 1:26pm Shaian Mohammadi Thanks. And I always got yours.
February 1, 2013
2/1, 9:47pm Shaian Mohammadi why are there hearts around Rob Thomas' name??? i miss in n out so much
2/1, 10:11pm Ann Grabowski because I looooooooveee him I don't think I appreciate that spot enough
how's it going, boo?
2/1, 10:13pm Shaian Mohammadi haha i'm going to make it so that i'm not your boo anymore: he's lameeeeeeeeeee :) la victorias is another spot underappreciated when in the proximity of it
2/1, 10:14pm Ann Grabowski WHAT do you mean by that? La Victorias = death march to clogged arteries
2/1, 10:15pm Shaian Mohammadi i just find him very cheesy haha yeah but that orange sauce though yumm
2/1, 10:16pm Ann Grabowski bah - orange sauce = gluten ATTACK. like, WW2 status you say cheesy, I hear dreeeaaaammmy
2/1, 10:16pm Shaian Mohammadi LOL
2/1, 10:16pm Ann Grabowski he sang the theme song for Up! c'monnnnn man
2/1, 10:16pm Shaian Mohammadi i'm going to say that from now on "WW2 status" i like gluten whats wrong with gluen gluten
2/1, 10:18pm Ann Grabowski well, when you have celiacs disease, gluten is the enemy
2/1, 10:18pm Shaian Mohammadi you have that awwww poor babyyyyyyyyyy :(
2/1, 10:18pm Ann Grabowski si saves me from heart disease in many situations hows the white house treating you?
2/1, 10:19pm Shaian Mohammadi eh, more like the mail room 7 blocks away
2/1, 10:20pm Ann Grabowski well how's that?
2/1, 10:20pm Shaian Mohammadi might split my time there and the Hill actually not what i thought it would be
2/1, 10:20pm Ann Grabowski cool people?
2/1, 10:20pm Shaian Mohammadi eh ehhhh lots of young dumb kids
2/1, 10:20pm Ann Grabowski aw man
2/1, 10:21pm Shaian Mohammadi everything is a fucking joke to them i miss the bay
2/1, 10:21pm Ann Grabowski any cool OFA people that you can connect with
2/1, 10:21pm Shaian Mohammadi nopes
2/1, 10:21pm Ann Grabowski man
2/1, 10:21pm Shaian Mohammadi but i wouldnt mind working for the new OFA why arent you out raging right now woman
2/1, 10:22pm Ann Grabowski working
2/1, 10:22pm Shaian Mohammadi coyote ugly style
2/1, 10:23pm Ann Grabowski we have a Commission retreat manana
2/1, 10:23pm Shaian Mohammadi gonna call you commissioner from now on
2/1, 10:23pm Ann Grabowski ha!
2/1, 10:23pm Shaian Mohammadi i like doing that
2/1, 10:23pm Ann Grabowski what are you doing tonight?
2/1, 10:23pm Shaian Mohammadi my nights already over i went out to get a few drinks earlier with a girl i know out here
2/1, 10:24pm Ann Grabowski ohhhhhhh a lady?
2/1, 10:25pm Shaian Mohammadi yeah she wanted to come over too and i said she should probably go home i cockblocked myself intentionally
2/1, 10:25pm Ann Grabowski ohhh one of those?
2/1, 10:25pm Shaian Mohammadi i mean i'd probably be down but i needed some alone time been kinda down #emo
2/1, 10:26pm Ann Grabowski :( whats your address?
2/1, 10:27pm Shaian Mohammadi 1600 S Eads St Apt #502s Arlington, VA 22202 you gonna pack yourself in a box and come out here??
2/1, 10:27pm Ann Grabowski on it :) if the post office rejects me, I'll make sure the rest of the goodies make it to you any food allergies or requests?
2/1, 10:28pm Shaian Mohammadi i'll make a call and make sure they dont reject you or you know, a flight is cool too hahaha TONS OF GLUTEN
2/1, 10:28pm Ann Grabowski you can have ALL the gluten
2/1, 10:29pm Shaian Mohammadi i wish i brought my guitar you can buy me one right??
2/1, 10:29pm Ann Grabowski ha if I could buy one, I'd have one
2/1, 10:29pm Shaian Mohammadi i'll teach you some chords!
2/1, 10:29pm Ann Grabowski I'll send you a kazoo
2/1, 10:30pm Shaian Mohammadi we can start a band
2/1, 10:30pm Ann Grabowski it'll be the best band when are you back?
2/1, 10:30pm Shaian Mohammadi no rob thomas covers or matchbox 20 shit end of april for the democratic convention
2/1, 10:31pm Ann Grabowski I light matchboxes on fire WOO!
2/1, 10:31pm Shaian Mohammadi ohhh nice
2/1, 10:31pm Ann Grabowski We can party at convention together - but isn't that mid april?
2/1, 10:31pm Shaian Mohammadi this will be like my 5th one and i never remember, for some reason thought it was usually the end of april are you going to send me a letter with perfume on it? WW2 status (what what!)
2/1, 10:33pm Ann Grabowski um. fo sho
March 22, 2013
3/22, 5:21pm Shaian Mohammadi u rok mine
3/22, 5:35pm Ann Grabowski ?
3/22, 5:35pm Shaian Mohammadi maybe i am not 'folk'
3/22, 5:59pm Ann Grabowski What are you then?
3/22, 6:00pm Shaian Mohammadi haha you commented and i messaged back long day?
3/22, 6:03pm Ann Grabowski ?
3/22, 6:31pm Ann Grabowski I'm drinking wine in Paris, so forgive me for not following.
3/22, 6:31pm Shaian Mohammadi What! Jealous
3/22, 7:26pm Ann Grabowski I mean, Paris came to my backyard.
3/22, 7:35pm Shaian Mohammadi Can I come over?
3/22, 7:36pm Ann Grabowski I ate all the cheese
3/22, 7:37pm Shaian Mohammadi Are you nauseous?
3/22, 7:37pm Ann Grabowski Nope. Just sleepy
3/22, 7:39pm Shaian Mohammadi Same. But it's way later here.
March 23, 2013
3/23, 10:27pm Shaian Mohammadi hi
3/23, 10:27pm Ann Grabowski yo
3/23, 10:29pm Shaian Mohammadi http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIuj5Us58GY this is how i want all my 'hi' introductions to be
3/23, 10:30pm Ann Grabowski thats creepy as hell
3/23, 10:31pm Shaian Mohammadi so good
3/23, 10:31pm Ann Grabowski #iprefermylittlepony
3/23, 10:32pm Shaian Mohammadi let's put a smile on that face
3/23, 10:33pm Ann Grabowski not a smile like the joker
the ANIMATED cartoon used to give me nightmares.
3/23, 10:34pm Shaian Mohammadi i wanna be friends with heath ledger's joker yeah that cartoon version was scary too mark hammil
3/23, 10:35pm Ann Grabowski please hold while I drive away scary thoughts by thinking of scooby doo
3/23, 10:37pm Shaian Mohammadi they used to get into some scary ass situations too scooby wont help
3/23, 10:37pm Ann Grabowski fine. Homeward Bound.
3/23, 10:38pm Shaian Mohammadi michael j fox!
3/23, 10:39pm Ann Grabowski I still have a crush on him.
3/23, 10:40pm Shaian Mohammadi well im the biggest back to the future fan so... is it weird that i am watching dark knight joker scenes?
3/23, 10:43pm Ann Grabowski yes. Q: you aren't going to convention are you?
3/23, 10:44pm Shaian Mohammadi i can't help it, so good https://www.facebook.com/shaianmohammadi/posts/10151297727455826
3/23, 10:44pm Ann Grabowski convention or the joker? jesus did you seriously just go through the trouble of linking a post instead of answering me?
3/23, 10:46pm Shaian Mohammadi i also couldnt remember all the caucuses i joined so it was two birds one stone
3/23, 10:46pm Ann Grabowski lol
3/23, 10:46pm Shaian Mohammadi so yes and i plan on bugging you a lot while i am there
3/23, 10:46pm Ann Grabowski great. I mean, that's obviously worth the plane ticket.
3/23, 10:47pm Shaian Mohammadi psh, yeah i'll use some joker lines "well, hello beautiful. you must be Nik's squeeze"
3/23, 10:48pm Ann Grabowski I'll literally beat your ass.
3/23, 10:48pm Shaian Mohammadi i welcome that
3/23, 10:49pm Ann Grabowski I'm glaring at you right now.
3/23, 10:50pm Shaian Mohammadi oh you look nervous... is it the scars? wanna know how I got them? come here... i'm done
3/23, 10:50pm Ann Grabowski yes. yes you are.
3/23, 10:52pm Shaian Mohammadi a little fight in you i like that
3/23, 10:53pm Ann Grabowski not much left heading to sleep - been up since 5 tootles!
3/23, 10:54pm Shaian Mohammadi niiiiiiiiiiight
March 31, 2013
3/31, 11:49am Shaian Mohammadi still think its lame you dont want a gift from me.
3/31, 12:26pm Ann Grabowski You're allowed to feel that way. Buy me a drink at convention? Sigh. Having a hard day, friend.
3/31, 12:27pm Shaian Mohammadi I'll buy you more than 1 drink. And I feel you on having a hard day.
3/31, 12:27pm Ann Grabowski :( what's up, homie?
3/31, 12:28pm Shaian Mohammadi Just dealing with some personal stuff, home is included in they. What's going on with your day? *that
3/31, 12:30pm Ann Grabowski :( sorry friend. Let me know if there's anything that I can support you in. I'm at my mom's for Easter, and it's just become very clear that this isn't "home" which is a vulnerable and uncertain feeling.
3/31, 12:31pm Shaian Mohammadi Yeah what can support me is if you ditch everything and run away with me to a far away land. Why's that? Family arguments?
3/31, 12:33pm Ann Grabowski If only it was that simple! :) It's a bunch of things, mainly that my brother is self absorbed and my friends care more about me than he does. Whateva. Seriously though, anything I can do?
3/31, 12:34pm Shaian Mohammadi It can be that simple. Into the wild status without poisonous roots. Ahhh sibling drama Don't let that bother you. I love my sister but we go through it too. I haven't spoken to my dad since Dec. 23 I also haven't been in a serious relationship since 2008 and I think loneliness is catching up with me haha. #emo
3/31, 12:48pm Ann Grabowski Well, more than one drink will certainly be necessary. Chin up friend. I will if you will
3/31, 12:51pm Shaian Mohammadi It'll be nice to be back See friends Play with my dogs in good weather My ego is forcing me to be here
3/31, 12:57pm Ann Grabowski That's not a bad thing. Let your ego show you your potential, but know that we'll always be happy to have you back
3/31, 12:57pm Shaian Mohammadi i wish it worked that way ha fact is, the more time i'm gone from my political home, the more people will forget who i am and if that's not the case, it's probably because they remember me for my big mouth
3/31, 1:04pm Ann Grabowski No one is forgetting you - at least not the people that are smart enough to actually make change and be effective
3/31, 1:08pm Shaian Mohammadi http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwUjTzB7SiM
3/31, 1:41pm Ann Grabowski Love it
3/31, 1:44pm Shaian Mohammadi love U LOVE EVERYONE jk just you and a couple others
3/31, 2:40pm Ann Grabowski Lol My 4 year old nephew definitely hates me right now. I gave him dark chocolate for the first time without telling him. Bitter beer face on a 4 year old = winning!
3/31, 2:42pm Shaian Mohammadi haha so good sad part is that i love that stuff tell him he will like it when he's old like us
3/31, 2:43pm Ann Grabowski Me too! He said that the Easter bunny was going to punish me
3/31, 2:43pm Shaian Mohammadi haha that's kind of a frightening thought
3/31, 2:46pm Ann Grabowski I just used the opportunity to silently bite the ears off if the chocolate bunny and stare at him.
3/31, 2:47pm Shaian Mohammadi show him who's boss also i am jealous because ive had 0 pieces of easter candy today not sure if i should feel good about myself or be depressed
3/31, 2:48pm Ann Grabowski Feel good. I'm charting tomorrows run with every last bite.
3/31, 2:52pm Shaian Mohammadi my friend said it best 'Easter just makes me wanna watch Donnie Darko all day.'
3/31, 2:54pm Ann Grabowski I mean, like all religious holidays, Easter makes me want to fold to consumer capitalism
3/31, 2:55pm Shaian Mohammadi haha i walked through best buy the other day just to walk through i havent told anyone that
3/31, 2:58pm Ann Grabowski Not all who wander are lost
3/31, 2:59pm Shaian Mohammadi i wander and i am lost
3/31, 2:59pm Ann Grabowski Ill get you a map
3/31, 3:00pm Shaian Mohammadi no need :) i got a compass i just, do... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnKUD_OztRE
3/31, 3:00pm Ann Grabowski :)
3/31, 3:00pm Shaian Mohammadi your new favorite video/song
3/31, 3:01pm Ann Grabowski I shall check it out after I beat this kid at hide and seek
3/31, 3:01pm Shaian Mohammadi hey rea world activities those are neat *real
April 2, 2013
4/2, 1:21pm Shaian Mohammadi react-empty: 7
4/2, 1:43pm Ann Grabowski Oye.
4/2, 1:43pm Shaian Mohammadi I guess I'm a ladies man.
4/2, 1:44pm Ann Grabowski I doubt we'll be able to contain you
April 4, 2013
4/4, 4:10pm Shaian Mohammadi movie date. you and i. my arm may wander.
4/4, 4:27pm Ann Grabowski Oh jeez.
4/4, 4:28pm Shaian Mohammadi sorry i wrote that to you before my girlfriend texted me brbeeeez
4/4, 5:36pm Shaian Mohammadi oops forgot to say i was joking
4/4, 5:44pm Ann Grabowski You're such a beezy
4/4, 5:45pm Shaian Mohammadi I kinda like it when you make fun of me
4/4, 5:46pm Ann Grabowski Lol Shaian! That's ridiculous!
4/4, 5:48pm Shaian Mohammadi alright
4/4, 5:48pm Ann Grabowski Get ready for alllll the central committee texts!
April 18, 2013
4/18, 4:25pm Shaian Mohammadi eyeliner much? don't share this. http://a4.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/116/0637e45c576345688814ce6e69d8517d/l.jpg
4/18, 4:26pm Ann Grabowski Good lord. MySpace still exists?
4/18, 4:27pm Shaian Mohammadi www.myspace.com/eterni there are some pretty funny photos on there, check the mout *them out i should probably get rid of some
4/18, 4:29pm Ann Grabowski Why'd you break up?
4/18, 4:30pm Shaian Mohammadi that was the band Andrea Yellowstar was helping me out with we never really quit, we went on hiatus, we're supposed to play again soon
4/18, 4:31pm Ann Grabowski DJ D-DREA!
4/18, 4:31pm Shaian Mohammadi yep i was on her radio show a couple times played some acoustic songs http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_et2dhCmWOg almost 8 years ago watch that when you feel lonely and wanna see a young video of me Andrea is in that she looks super different
4/18, 4:33pm Ann Grabowski :) I remember the first time Othello was on. We had a celebratory dinner #prudegroupies
4/18, 4:46pm Ann Grabowski I enjoy playing hard to get as well. This could be tricky
4/18, 4:46pm Shaian Mohammadi it should be pretty obvious by now that youre not a person id play hard against
4/18, 4:47pm Ann Grabowski You should, it'd be fun
4/18, 4:49pm Shaian Mohammadi i think it's more fun when the girl does it
4/18, 4:50pm Ann Grabowski Happy to oblige ;)
4/18, 4:50pm Shaian Mohammadi i mean isnt the 3000 miles already playing hard to get?
4/18, 4:50pm Ann Grabowski That doesn't count
4/18, 4:52pm Shaian Mohammadi lame i just watched that video, im my own biggest fan
4/18, 4:53pm Ann Grabowski Lol
4/18, 4:54pm Shaian Mohammadi i wonder if any of this shit will be used against me some day
4/18, 4:54pm Ann Grabowski The music stuff? Own it, unless there are photos of drugs.
4/18, 4:54pm Shaian Mohammadi no drug photos at least none that i know of
4/18, 4:54pm Ann Grabowski Well then, you're fine
4/18, 4:55pm Shaian Mohammadi i never allowed photos #rockstar
4/18, 4:55pm Ann Grabowski Very wise
4/18, 4:56pm Shaian Mohammadi i talked to Chuck Page earlier about my chances
4/18, 4:56pm Ann Grabowski Fun! What did he say? There's a photo out there somewhere of my in. A strapless top with a 24 pack of beer on my shoulder
4/18, 4:57pm Shaian Mohammadi you're screwed but normally id probably be attracted to it
4/18, 4:57pm Ann Grabowski I think I know who owns the photo
4/18, 4:58pm Shaian Mohammadi he said i should start my career now. and that it's most likely true that Campbell will elect me, although Campbell only elected Evan because people knew of his family before he then asked if i was muslim and said i could use that to my advantage as a 'first' but id rather take the ethnicity route than religious route
4/18, 4:59pm Ann Grabowski Are you Muslim?
4/18, 5:00pm Shaian Mohammadi i'm like nothing i'm spiritual i'm still debating the god thing sometimes i think there is one sometimes i dont
4/18, 5:01pm Ann Grabowski Yeah, then ethnicity is the way to go Ps: go spiritual people! Jumping off the web. Text me if you'd like
April 19, 2013
4/19, 10:58pm Ann Grabowski "Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive." --Howard Thurman
April 21, 2013
4/21, 2:09pm Ann Grabowski Hey there - I don't have my phone with me at the office. Just an FYI :)
4/21, 2:09pm Shaian Mohammadi Oh word. I texted you a couple random things. What happened at the endorsement?
4/21, 2:10pm Ann Grabowski Sole for Cindy by one vote.
4/21, 2:10pm Shaian Mohammadi Haha.
4/21, 2:10pm Ann Grabowski Recommendation was for a dual.
4/21, 2:10pm Shaian Mohammadi Democracy.
4/21, 2:11pm Ann Grabowski Indeed - is today a better day?
4/21, 2:12pm Shaian Mohammadi Actually yeah. Although starting tomorrow morning I am official broke on all my lines of credit. Got 100 bucks left for groceries and a metro pass. It's kind of a hassle but I also don't give a fuck to not have money for once. I am however starting to get holes in my regular non work clothes.
4/21, 2:13pm Ann Grabowski your internship isn't paid, is it?
4/21, 2:13pm Shaian Mohammadi Nope. Only fellows from other institutions and hill/WH staff are paid. I was using the thousands of dollars I saved while working on OFA but this month was the last of it with rent.
4/21, 2:14pm Ann Grabowski :/
4/21, 2:14pm Shaian Mohammadi No bummed out faces plz. #LifeOnTheEdge Of Glory???
4/21, 2:15pm Ann Grabowski obviously handle those situations better than I do - I hated that position, and remember it well
4/21, 2:15pm Shaian Mohammadi I had a very Americana moment today I texted you about it
4/21, 2:16pm Ann Grabowski I shall read about it when I leave the office, or you can tell me now.
4/21, 2:16pm Shaian Mohammadi You don't care if I repeat myself? Isn't that annoying?
4/21, 2:17pm Ann Grabowski you are way too critical
4/21, 2:17pm Shaian Mohammadi Maybe
4/21, 2:19pm Ann Grabowski It's one text message.
4/21, 2:20pm Shaian Mohammadi I was walking around a random suburban street in Virginia. Played on a broken down swing and listened to the choir from the old church across the street.
4/21, 2:20pm Ann Grabowski thats cool :)
4/21, 2:21pm Shaian Mohammadi Way to get away from the bubble.
4/21, 2:22pm Ann Grabowski bubbles are dangerous
4/21, 2:22pm Shaian Mohammadi I like blowing them
4/21, 2:23pm Ann Grabowski thats what she said
4/21, 2:23pm Shaian Mohammadi Is it weird that I'm a lil turned on by you right now?
4/21, 2:24pm Ann Grabowski Im sitting at my desk listening to Billy Joel. How is that sexy?
4/21, 2:24pm Shaian Mohammadi I think it was your joke. And you sitting anywhere listening to anything is sexy. Sans country music.
4/21, 2:25pm Ann Grabowski I think of Dwight Schrute when I say that - so I have a hard time thinking that joke is sexy.
4/21, 2:25pm Shaian Mohammadi Ew
4/21, 2:25pm Ann Grabowski and I LOVE county music
4/21, 2:25pm Shaian Mohammadi Although Rainn is pretty meat.
4/21, 2:25pm Ann Grabowski I went to his book signing
4/21, 2:26pm Shaian Mohammadi That's cool. I'd put up with listening to it in a truck riding around suburban Dallas with a cowboy hat but that's about it. Nice
4/21, 2:26pm Ann Grabowski Goodnight. We don't go to Texas.
4/21, 2:28pm Shaian Mohammadi Lots of closed down post offices around these parts. react-empty: 7
4/21, 2:29pm Ann Grabowski sad day for snail mail
4/21, 2:29pm Shaian Mohammadi But good day for snails.
4/21, 2:30pm Ann Grabowski I hate snails.
4/21, 2:30pm Shaian Mohammadi I don't have an opinion on them. Except I don't like stepping on them. Or eating them. Yuck.
4/21, 2:31pm Ann Grabowski They ruin my plants. I hate them. I step on them when wearing appropriate shoes.
4/21, 2:32pm Shaian Mohammadi Haha mean. Plants, as far as I know are still, still bending toward the light, and if we dance until the heart explodes, it'll make this place ignite.
4/21, 2:34pm Ann Grabowski Fancy. Going to dive into some reading for Tuesday's council meeting. Talk to you later?
4/21, 2:35pm Shaian Mohammadi Laterz
April 23, 2013
4/23, 4:29pm Shaian Mohammadi did you know this is one of the best movie openings ever? and I'm not even too big on Gosling. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIpXQS5gaAw
Drive Opening Credits with Kavinsky (Nightcall) youtube.com
April 27, 2013
4/27, 7:50am Shaian Mohammadi this is our office dog Pepper https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/417892_717411609436_2020532446_n.jpg here is the DNA stuff: https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/540712_714804464176_939945906_n.jpg
4/27, 7:56am Ann Grabowski I WANT HER
4/27, 7:59am Shaian Mohammadi she's adorable
4/27, 8:00am Ann Grabowski She and Winston should get married. Sir Winston and Srg Pepper
4/27, 8:01am Shaian Mohammadi OMG, Sergeant Pepper! i'm gonna call her that from now on doggy marriage. #EQUALITY
4/27, 8:04am Ann Grabowski Why can't I ever sleeeeeep in? Ever!
4/27, 8:04am Shaian Mohammadi did i wake you? also its because your body is used to that sleep cycle during the week. i didnt get off the phone with you until about 5 am my time and i woke up at like 10
4/27, 8:12am Ann Grabowski No you didn't. I hate my stupid sleep cycle!!
4/27, 8:15am Shaian Mohammadi i hate your sleep cycle too lets beat it up
4/27, 8:19am Ann Grabowski im going to kill it with kindness by letting it listen to sara bareilles while I look up fun things to do in half moon bay
4/27, 8:22am Shaian Mohammadi 1. get drunk 2. get drunk 3. steal a bottle of wine
4/27, 8:22am Ann Grabowski rebel.
4/27, 8:23am Shaian Mohammadi wanna see what my sister looks like?
4/27, 8:23am Ann Grabowski sure
4/27, 8:23am Shaian Mohammadi https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/5212_110697414693_2417130_n.jpg #thuglife
4/27, 8:23am Ann Grabowski shes beautiful!
4/27, 8:24am Shaian Mohammadi yeah she got her good genes from me
4/27, 8:24am Ann Grabowski ...
4/27, 8:24am Shaian Mohammadi just kidding i think our mom is pretty
4/27, 8:24am Ann Grabowski :)
4/27, 8:24am Shaian Mohammadi thats why
4/27, 8:27am Ann Grabowski https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3896038275352&set=t.34703119&type=3&theater
Annie & Matt at Delise's wedding reception. They still like to play with me. :) Jean Johnson Grabowski
4/27, 8:28am Shaian Mohammadi "Its clear that I'm the cuter child." dorkus <3
4/27, 8:28am Ann Grabowski its true
4/27, 8:28am Shaian Mohammadi is that your brobro?
4/27, 8:28am Ann Grabowski si.
4/27, 8:28am Shaian Mohammadi where's he at? also i like that she calls you Annie
4/27, 8:29am Ann Grabowski that awkward when your ag teacher comments on your photo. :) everyone from home calls me annie
4/27, 8:29am Shaian Mohammadi HA, that Paul dude?
4/27, 8:29am Ann Grabowski yep
4/27, 8:30am Shaian Mohammadi maybe he wanted you hot for teacher?
4/27, 8:30am Ann Grabowski stop!
4/27, 8:30am Shaian Mohammadi i kid i kid i may call you Annie here and there
4/27, 8:30am Ann Grabowski bleh. fine by me people who know me as ann think "annie" is weird, and people that I'm super close to can't call me ann. it's annie all day err day
4/27, 8:31am Shaian Mohammadi Annie from tha hood i like both
4/27, 8:32am Ann Grabowski from the farm?
4/27, 8:32am Shaian Mohammadi well the farm is a pretty dangerous place so i compared it to the hood you donno which sheep or cow is armed these days those damn assault weapons
4/27, 8:32am Ann Grabowski true. you can easily contract tetanus
4/27, 8:33am Shaian Mohammadi thank goodness I already got my shot then
4/27, 8:33am Ann Grabowski seriously. man. I haven't looked at the pictures in that album in forever. #memorylane
4/27, 8:34am Shaian Mohammadi dont mind if i do you are pretty w/o makeup
4/27, 8:36am Ann Grabowski which photo?
4/27, 8:36am Shaian Mohammadi just in general
4/27, 8:36am Ann Grabowski because that is not always the case :)
4/27, 8:38am Shaian Mohammadi what about when i came over after convention?
4/27, 8:39am Ann Grabowski was I not wearing make-up?
4/27, 8:39am Shaian Mohammadi dont think so
4/27, 8:39am Ann Grabowski hmm. couldn't say
4/27, 8:39am Shaian Mohammadi naturally pretty i on the other hand have to always wear make up man...
4/27, 8:40am Ann Grabowski societal norms are a bitch
4/27, 8:40am Shaian Mohammadi yeah also who associated blue with boys and pink with girls? i like pink too
4/27, 8:40am Ann Grabowski I dislike pink most of the time
4/27, 8:41am Shaian Mohammadi yeah her music has really gone down hill in recent years
4/27, 8:41am Ann Grabowski somewhat agree. she has a good one every now and then I sign "glitter in the air" alllllll the time
4/27, 8:42am Shaian Mohammadi haha i havent heard that
4/27, 8:43am Ann Grabowski look it up
4/27, 8:44am Shaian Mohammadi i am
4/27, 8:44am Ann Grabowski faster.
4/27, 8:44am Shaian Mohammadi sounds like she's a big freddie mercury fan harder better faster stronger
4/27, 8:46am Ann Grabowski isnt that how everyone likes it?
4/27, 8:49am Shaian Mohammadi ... drool
4/27, 8:49am Ann Grabowski I'm drooling too - but because I'm listening to Sara's "Live at the Fillmore" album, and I was there for the recording.
4/27, 8:50am Shaian Mohammadi i love that! makes you feel a part of it
4/27, 8:51am Ann Grabowski indeed
4/27, 8:52am Shaian Mohammadi i think i was at a live recorded show for MGMT and nine inch nails
4/27, 8:52am Ann Grabowski nine inch nails scares me!
4/27, 8:57am Shaian Mohammadi thats cuz you havent listened to all his stuff! trent reznor can really make some beautiful music when he wants to
4/27, 8:58am Ann Grabowski perhaps.
4/27, 9:01am Shaian Mohammadi i wish i could find a place to live for the month of may
4/27, 9:02am Ann Grabowski you want out of there that bad?
4/27, 9:02am Shaian Mohammadi i mean my roommates are nasty
4/27, 9:02am Ann Grabowski have you talked to them about it?
4/27, 9:03am Shaian Mohammadi yeah theyre just lazy
4/27, 9:03am Ann Grabowski guys?
4/27, 9:03am Shaian Mohammadi boyfriend + girlfriend
4/27, 9:03am Ann Grabowski threesome? jk
4/27, 9:03am Shaian Mohammadi no thanks
4/27, 9:04am Ann Grabowski :)
4/27, 9:04am Shaian Mohammadi andrea met them when she crashed here. she thought they were a lil off.
4/27, 9:04am Ann Grabowski how'd you find them?
4/27, 9:04am Shaian Mohammadi they were my OFA coworkers
4/27, 9:04am Ann Grabowski ah. I'm sorry - at least the month will go by quickly
4/27, 9:06am Shaian Mohammadi you dont have to be sorry deary!
4/27, 9:06am Ann Grabowski #empathy i haz it
4/27, 9:07am Shaian Mohammadi yeah, gonna make you a good elected some day
4/27, 9:07am Ann Grabowski perhaps
4/27, 9:10am Shaian Mohammadi what do you use to listen to music? spotify?
4/27, 9:10am Ann Grabowski pandora
4/27, 9:11am Shaian Mohammadi not sure if this will come up, but listen to Nine Inch Nails - The Fragile (the song, not the whole album) maybe itll change yo mind
4/27, 9:12am Ann Grabowski after sara. we don't interrupt sara.
4/27, 9:12am Shaian Mohammadi of course
4/27, 9:12am Ann Grabowski but I appreciate the introduction
4/27, 9:14am Shaian Mohammadi who did you say is stalking my FB pics?
4/27, 9:15am Ann Grabowski I just saw that vanessa compean liked that one
4/27, 9:15am Shaian Mohammadi just looked it up. she is friends with the other guy in that photo with me
4/27, 9:15am Ann Grabowski sara's new song brave is about a friend of hers struggling to come out
4/27, 9:15am Shaian Mohammadi cuz shes not on my friends list
4/27, 9:15am Ann Grabowski thought that was cool
4/27, 9:15am Shaian Mohammadi i was like, whos stalking me?? ah cool hopefully her friend doesnt go to a Michelle Shocked show any time soon
4/27, 9:18am Ann Grabowski it was your profile pic so she probably was lead to it when you liked her photo of me
4/27, 9:18am Shaian Mohammadi in which you are super cute in
4/27, 9:18am Ann Grabowski you're nuts
4/27, 9:19am Shaian Mohammadi makes me wanna give you a big hug
4/27, 9:19am Ann Grabowski i look like a hot mess right now, so hold your horses
4/27, 9:19am Shaian Mohammadi (i like that look) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8xPEkmyIzo
4/27, 9:21am Ann Grabowski I'm not wearing seamed leggings, I can tell you that
4/27, 9:24am Shaian Mohammadi you can do whatever it is that you desire
4/27, 9:24am Ann Grabowski right now i desire polka-dot pjs and an oversized v-neck. and not looking in the mirror.
4/27, 9:25am Shaian Mohammadi you can borrow one of my v-necks mirror mirror!
4/27, 9:25am Ann Grabowski I can provide my own v-necks, thank you very much. #independentwoman
4/27, 9:26am Shaian Mohammadi okay miss independent! kelly clarkson ova here excuse me, *hurr
4/27, 9:27am Ann Grabowski check yo self before you wreck yo self alright alright. I need to start my day. breaky, shower, facing the mirror
4/27, 9:28am Shaian Mohammadi have fun drink tons of wine for me steal a bottle
4/27, 9:29am Ann Grabowski get yourself out into the wonder of DC - theres lots of women there this weekend for the race!!
4/27, 9:29am Shaian Mohammadi good cuz i am SCRUFFY
4/27, 9:29am Ann Grabowski perfect for the athletic types :) tootles!
4/27, 9:30am Shaian Mohammadi bye!
April 28, 2013
4/28, 1:59pm Shaian Mohammadi your new tumblr addictions: http://campaignsick.tumblr.com/ http://onlyonthehill.tumblr.com/
Campaignsick Tumblr This is the tumblr you wish you were allowed to make, a community project and ongoing love letter to... campaignsick.tumblr.com
4/28, 2:04pm Shaian Mohammadi http://onlyonthehill.tumblr.com/post/22627936308/when-all-the-other-offices-are-out-at-5-00-to-go-to-hh
When all the other offices are out at 5:00 to go to HH and I still have to work: onlyonthehill.tumblr.com
April 30, 2013
4/30, 5:35am Shaian Mohammadi saw this and thought of you: https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/945641_539165850841_2025850007_n.jpg
May 2, 2013
5/2, 1:44pm Shaian Mohammadi http://www.morebeans.com/articles/17-problems-you-haven-t-had-since-the-90s
17 problems you haven't had since the 90s How time flies. It only seems like last week that Ant & Dec were in the charts. Oh, wait a minute... morebeans.com
5/2, 1:51pm Ann Grabowski I loved Dawson's creek!
5/2, 1:52pm Shaian Mohammadi It's just homeboy's face. The texts on the meme are hilariously true.
5/2, 1:53pm Ann Grabowski I saw - but my overarching reaction was to the show I miss some of those troubles
5/2, 1:56pm Shaian Mohammadi Haha aww And yeah me too
May 4, 2013
May 5, 2013
5/5, 9:25am Shaian Mohammadi http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/sns-rt-us-usa-california-accidentbre94407r-20130505,0,3495116.story hopefully you didnt know anyone partying on this...
Limousine catches fire on Calif. bridge, killing five inside (Reuters) - A stretch limousine traveling across a bridge in the San Francisco area caught fire, killing five passengers and injuring four others, police said on Sunday. chicagotribune.com
May 8, 2013
5/8, 4:11pm Shaian Mohammadi http://im.skdat.com/data/gags/1364482218.jpg
5/8, 4:50pm Ann Grabowski 1. I don't look like her
2. Her bits are probably getting scratched by his jeans. Uncool.
3. They should use the money they earned on that dumb photoshoot to hire a real decorator
5/8, 4:51pm Shaian Mohammadi haha thanks for the well thought up presentation you forgot your laser pointer though
5/8, 4:52pm Ann Grabowski Ill tell you where to shove your laser pointer.
5/8, 4:53pm Shaian Mohammadi ohh fierce annie
5/8, 4:53pm Ann Grabowski You sent that as I was walking into a meeting, hence the delayed response
5/8, 4:53pm Shaian Mohammadi how was the meeting
5/8, 4:54pm Ann Grabowski Good, but now I have more work to do. Came with an invitation to apply for a job though
5/8, 4:54pm Shaian Mohammadi nice, where and what
5/8, 4:54pm Ann Grabowski Housing policy in our housing department
5/8, 4:57pm Shaian Mohammadi oh hayyy whattup city employee too bad Chuck Reed hates you
5/8, 4:57pm Ann Grabowski He likes me!
5/8, 4:57pm Shaian Mohammadi haha not you in general i meant city employees and i am sure you show him respect and he likes you back
5/8, 4:57pm Ann Grabowski You're just jelly that you don't have a pension
5/8, 4:58pm Shaian Mohammadi yeah i dont even know what that is i just wrote some shit up and yelled at the Mayor
5/8, 4:58pm Ann Grabowski I can't date you.
5/8, 4:58pm Shaian Mohammadi ouch
5/8, 4:58pm Ann Grabowski You can't just go around yelling at people! [Shaian Note—she is referring to my speech to Mayor Reed at council asking him to resign]
5/8, 4:58pm Shaian Mohammadi i was kidding i put time into that 2 minute speech
5/8, 4:59pm Ann Grabowski ;)
5/8, 4:59pm Shaian Mohammadi or 1 minute whatever it was regardless i went over it
5/8, 4:59pm Ann Grabowski So much work to dooooooooooo
5/8, 5:00pm Shaian Mohammadi lets go back to talking about me me me
5/8, 5:01pm Ann Grabowski Great idea. Start talking while I write tomorrow budget talkin points
5/8, 5:03pm Shaian Mohammadi *dead silence*
5/8, 5:03pm Ann Grabowski I hate you
5/8, 5:03pm Shaian Mohammadi hahaha <3
5/8, 5:03pm Ann Grabowski Want to bring me dinner?
5/8, 5:04pm Shaian Mohammadi where, to your office?
5/8, 5:04pm Ann Grabowski Yes Ill be here until a mtg in the wing at 630, where ill be until 9, when I'm meeting Arcadi and Ellen for a drank.
5/8, 5:06pm Shaian Mohammadi wish I could be your date to that afterward
5/8, 5:06pm Ann Grabowski If you brought me Indian food I'd let you join
5/8, 5:06pm Shaian Mohammadi haha well duhhh :)
5/8, 5:08pm Ann Grabowski Jumping off. Text if you want
May 9, 2013
5/9, 5:25am Shaian Mohammadi i may jump on the Teresa (Cos) train *Cox i also think she will win since shes all friendly with Peggy and Pelosi's daughter now
5/9, 6:26am Ann Grabowski I think she'll win because she's smarter than everyone else
5/9, 6:26am Shaian Mohammadi Haha, word.
5/9, 6:28am Ann Grabowski I hate my body - it won't let me sleep in Ps: good morning
5/9, 6:57am Shaian Mohammadi I feel the same at times. Good mornin'! -Kanye
5/9, 7:09am Shaian Mohammadi I was reminded that inspiration works in weird ways.
5/9, 7:48am Ann Grabowski Kanye inspires you?
5/9, 7:50am Shaian Mohammadi Haha no I had to write some letters to house leadership and I used some ideas and words from various quotes at the MLK memorial.
5/9, 7:51am Ann Grabowski Ah - very good. Next time throw in a lil wayne quote
5/9, 7:52am Shaian Mohammadi I'm a young money millionaire tougher than Nigerian hair
5/9, 7:53am Ann Grabowski Young money cash money
5/9, 7:53am Shaian Mohammadi I've memorized a lot of parts from A Milli
5/9, 7:54am Ann Grabowski I liked the Obama remix
5/9, 8:06am Shaian Mohammadi I like you
5/9, 8:23am Ann Grabowski Join the club ;)
5/9, 8:25am Shaian Mohammadi Uh huh
5/9, 8:26am Ann Grabowski Well, I guess you are already a member - probably going to have to fight over who is going to be President
5/9, 8:27am Shaian Mohammadi Haha what?
5/9, 8:27am Ann Grabowski President of the "We Like Ann" club. Duh.
5/9, 8:28am Shaian Mohammadi Who am I running against?
5/9, 8:29am Ann Grabowski Nik and maybe Brandon, and some guy from Seattle.
5/9, 8:30am Shaian Mohammadi Ew I'm more popular than all those douches. I respectfully will not run in that race.
5/9, 8:33am Ann Grabowski fair enough too bad though, since you're the one I talk to the most
5/9, 8:37am Shaian Mohammadi Yeah right
5/9, 8:38am Ann Grabowski I don't think it would be physically possible for me talk to anyone else at the level that I talk to you :)
5/9, 8:40am Shaian Mohammadi <3 Is that what you tell all your other boyfriends
5/9, 8:41am Ann Grabowski Not regularly ;) KIDDING!
5/9, 8:43am Shaian Mohammadi Convinced you hate me
5/9, 8:43am Ann Grabowski bahaahahahahahaha think you know thats not the case
5/9, 8:44am Shaian Mohammadi a lil bit :)
5/9, 8:45am Ann Grabowski I want to work for/with this man: http://youtu.be/KTvSfeCRxe8
Violence & Silence: Jackson Katz, Ph.D at TEDxFiDiWomen Jackson Katz, Phd, is an anti-sexist activist and expert on violence, media and masculinities. An author, filmmaker, educator and social theorist, Katz has w... youtube.com
5/9, 8:45am Shaian Mohammadi Sweet brah. Do it!
5/9, 8:46am Ann Grabowski whats with the "brah"
5/9, 8:47am Shaian Mohammadi California ignorance. Makes me sound like a dumb surfer
5/9, 8:47am Ann Grabowski you aren't even from an area that has good surfing!
5/9, 8:50am Shaian Mohammadi Santa Cruz?
5/9, 8:51am Ann Grabowski such wimpy waves I only learned to surf because the waves were so small
5/9, 8:51am Shaian Mohammadi I've never gone :( I want to lean Learn
5/9, 8:52am Ann Grabowski I haven't been in a long time - don't care to buy a wet suit, OR rent a wet suit that some homie has peed in
5/9, 8:53am Shaian Mohammadi Hoyer just took a jab at the majority Leander's office for not moving fast enough on the House/Senate conference for passing a budget. Ewww
5/9, 8:54am Ann Grabowski see - no surfing in norcal for me and I dislike socal so I'll just tan
5/9, 8:57am Shaian Mohammadi Sexy skin
5/9, 8:58am Ann Grabowski I should probably get dressed tootles!
5/9, 8:58am Shaian Mohammadi Nooo Stay undressed
5/9, 8:59am Ann Grabowski ... I assure you that I can't go to work in polka dot pjs
5/9, 8:59am Shaian Mohammadi Wait you have work Get dressed Haha yeah You're cute So it could still work.
5/9, 9:00am Ann Grabowski I have to testify at the county today! Yeager isn't going to have that.
5/9, 9:00am Shaian Mohammadi Yeah probably not.
May 10, 2013
5/10, 9:43am Ann Grabowski I would never wear one, but these are making me feel better today :)
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5/10, 9:44am Shaian Mohammadi Haha, cute.
July 22, 2013
7/22, 3:55pm Shaian Mohammadi http://www.deadline.com/2013/07/sacha-baron-cohen-exits-freddie-mercury-biopic/
July 30, 2013
7/30, 8:20pm Shaian Mohammadi http://www.mercurynews.com/athletics/ci_23764333/oakland-pick-up-infielder-alberto-callaspo-from-angels
7/30, 8:52pm Ann Grabowski Dicks.
7/30, 8:53pm Shaian Mohammadi I just got double-Ann'ed. I kinda like it.
7/30, 8:58pm Ann Grabowski You would.
7/30, 9:00pm Shaian Mohammadi If you gchatted me right now too, I don't think I'd be able to handle it...
7/30, 9:01pm Ann Grabowski What might happen?
7/30, 9:04pm Shaian Mohammadi You'll probably be in my dream tonight getting a massage. And now I feel like Anthony Weiner.
7/30, 9:05pm Ann Grabowski I thought you were gay, so that's harmless
7/30, 9:05pm Shaian Mohammadi Gay Anthony Weiner.
7/30, 9:06pm Ann Grabowski Wait, would I be getting the massage I talked about or the restrained massage you promised?
7/30, 9:07pm Shaian Mohammadi restrained out of respek
7/30, 9:08pm Ann Grabowski Well then that is boring and harmless
7/30, 9:09pm Shaian Mohammadi boring is no fun harmless is good
7/30, 9:09pm Ann Grabowski Pick your poison
7/30, 9:10pm Shaian Mohammadi I'd rather you pick for me
7/30, 9:11pm Ann Grabowski ;)
GCHAT LOG BETWEEN ANN AND SHAIAN:
me: how was dinner last night? Im bored at work.
Ann: it was scrumptious.
Sent at 3:27 PM on Monday
Ann: Ash tried to hit on me again, did the whole put his hand on my lower back thing when he came in for a hug.
me: haha no wayy
PREVIOUS EMAILS:
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Shaian M <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to Ann
It's frustrating when you do a passive aggressive action like sign off on me when I'm about to tell you something before I leave because I don't feel good. What you said is fucked up. I invested in you and our friendship and I don't want to end it. You want to play our friendship by ear? Fine, but don't get mad at me when you just become a political colleague of mine and I'm dry or cold to you when we speak. It's difficult to feel like a shitty friend to you all the time.
And the aforementioned was said in a moderate tone. I am not angry whatsoever. Just disappointed, both in myself and in you.
I was seriously so happy last week and you started calling me boy justice again.
I just want us to be happy. I would give up anything for that back again.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to me
More assumptions. This is the end of my responses on this topic.
Sent from two tin cans and some twine...
Shaian Mohammadi <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to Ann
Then tell me how you really feel and what you really think, I wouldn't have to assume or play the guessing game.
I wrote that in the heat of the moment anyway. You can do whatever you'd like.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to me
When you realize that words, no matter when they are said, can be hurtful and that communicating in the heat of the moment is a poor decision with a high liability level, then we can talk.
8/7/13
to Ann
It's frustrating when you do a passive aggressive action like sign off on me when I'm about to tell you something before I leave because I don't feel good. What you said is fucked up. I invested in you and our friendship and I don't want to end it. You want to play our friendship by ear? Fine, but don't get mad at me when you just become a political colleague of mine and I'm dry or cold to you when we speak. It's difficult to feel like a shitty friend to you all the time.
And the aforementioned was said in a moderate tone. I am not angry whatsoever. Just disappointed, both in myself and in you.
I was seriously so happy last week and you started calling me boy justice again.
I just want us to be happy. I would give up anything for that back again.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to me
More assumptions. This is the end of my responses on this topic.
Sent from two tin cans and some twine...
Shaian Mohammadi <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to Ann
Then tell me how you really feel and what you really think, I wouldn't have to assume or play the guessing game.
I wrote that in the heat of the moment anyway. You can do whatever you'd like.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/7/13
to me
When you realize that words, no matter when they are said, can be hurtful and that communicating in the heat of the moment is a poor decision with a high liability level, then we can talk.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to me
I know that you're hurt and I know that I had some part in that. But please, stop. You don't have any right to stake your claim in print inches on every single thing that I write. I just want to be left alone.
Based on your comments to expect you around more, that's fine by me. But please don't expect me to encourage that interaction or be comfortable around you. Also, I've asked someone else to host the Call to Action workshop.
--
Ann Grabowski
408.406.0707
I am only one.
But still I am one.
I cannot do everything,
But still I can do something;
And because I cannot do everything
I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.
--Edward Everett Hal
-Please consider the environment before printing this email.
Shaian M <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to Ann
I may or may not be hurt, not that any of that is your business or that you even care. Please don't pretend like you know what I'm going through, you don't know me. Don't write about me, you have no right.
And thank you for reminding me you are not professional at all or capable to co-exist. Your passive aggressiveness will always be remembered in my life. I don't need your help, you're not a local leader that runs the show, especially after resigning all your positions. You're also in no way a moral authoritarian or dictator over the local party. Doesn't Andres do all the work anyway? I know now that I have to work against you. I've done just as much, if not more than you, and it was all without your conditional help. If you're in my way, I will tear you down. See you around. Good luck in your future endeavors or whatever, talking crap about people in local politics aka "your friends," or trying to get some fictitious job that's anywhere but here.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to me
I wrote about me - not about you. A few years ago, similar attacks shook me and yesterday they didn't quite have the same impact. Thats what I was writing about.
I never pretended to be any other the things you've made sure to tell me that I was/am not. I've been direct - not passive aggressive. I don't want to run the show and have deferred when asked. I have never pretended to be anyone's moral authority other than my own. Sounds like those are all the pedestals that you put me on - not the one's that I earned or asked for.
Shaian Mohammadi <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to Ann
Attacks? Quit victimizing yourself. You were a bad friend. I don't care what the impact was, that's selfish of you. I said what needed to be said. It may have not been the best way, but I needed to say it. And I'd never hurt myself because of you.
Don't ever stand in my way again, whether local activism or various orgs. I'm a good person, and I long to give back
Shaian M <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/12/13
to darcie.green
This is what I was talking about. I was supposed to present this portion of the call to action. But, Ann kicked me off of it because we had a personal falling-out. It's not good to use something personal against someone in a professional setting, and I didn't do anything in the equivalent. It's not a biggie and I'm not bummed, but it sucks that a young dem was turned away for wanting to help out cuz of personal ish.
8/9/13
to me
I know that you're hurt and I know that I had some part in that. But please, stop. You don't have any right to stake your claim in print inches on every single thing that I write. I just want to be left alone.
Based on your comments to expect you around more, that's fine by me. But please don't expect me to encourage that interaction or be comfortable around you. Also, I've asked someone else to host the Call to Action workshop.
--
Ann Grabowski
408.406.0707
I am only one.
But still I am one.
I cannot do everything,
But still I can do something;
And because I cannot do everything
I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.
--Edward Everett Hal
-Please consider the environment before printing this email.
Shaian M <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to Ann
I may or may not be hurt, not that any of that is your business or that you even care. Please don't pretend like you know what I'm going through, you don't know me. Don't write about me, you have no right.
And thank you for reminding me you are not professional at all or capable to co-exist. Your passive aggressiveness will always be remembered in my life. I don't need your help, you're not a local leader that runs the show, especially after resigning all your positions. You're also in no way a moral authoritarian or dictator over the local party. Doesn't Andres do all the work anyway? I know now that I have to work against you. I've done just as much, if not more than you, and it was all without your conditional help. If you're in my way, I will tear you down. See you around. Good luck in your future endeavors or whatever, talking crap about people in local politics aka "your friends," or trying to get some fictitious job that's anywhere but here.
Ann Grabowski <a.grabowski2006@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to me
I wrote about me - not about you. A few years ago, similar attacks shook me and yesterday they didn't quite have the same impact. Thats what I was writing about.
I never pretended to be any other the things you've made sure to tell me that I was/am not. I've been direct - not passive aggressive. I don't want to run the show and have deferred when asked. I have never pretended to be anyone's moral authority other than my own. Sounds like those are all the pedestals that you put me on - not the one's that I earned or asked for.
Shaian Mohammadi <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/9/13
to Ann
Attacks? Quit victimizing yourself. You were a bad friend. I don't care what the impact was, that's selfish of you. I said what needed to be said. It may have not been the best way, but I needed to say it. And I'd never hurt myself because of you.
Don't ever stand in my way again, whether local activism or various orgs. I'm a good person, and I long to give back
Shaian M <shaian456@gmail.com>
8/12/13
to darcie.green
This is what I was talking about. I was supposed to present this portion of the call to action. But, Ann kicked me off of it because we had a personal falling-out. It's not good to use something personal against someone in a professional setting, and I didn't do anything in the equivalent. It's not a biggie and I'm not bummed, but it sucks that a young dem was turned away for wanting to help out cuz of personal ish.